Coping with a Return to the Office
Aug 31, 2021 09:31AM ● By Jolene RossAs people return to working in an
office, many are feeling anxious and overwhelmed. For some, after many months
of isolation, they may be feeling anxious about returning to a social
environment. For people that are not ordinarily social, it has taken years of
practicing social skills to get to where they were before COVID-19 started.
Now, after a year and a half of not practicing these skills, the muscle has
weakened, making socializing even more difficult than it was at the start of
the pandemic.
For other individuals, they may find
themselves uncomfortable in their own skin and feeling self-conscious. For
example, weight gain has been a common occurrence due to the more home-bound
lifestyle people adopted during the pandemic.
Under
ordinary circumstances, social anxiety is eased by getting back to interacting
with people little by little; however, because of the Delta variant, now is not
the time to start going to public places. Try staying to oneself initially at
the office, and then bit by bit, behind a mask, ease into socializing to become
reaccustomed to the experience. It will get easier in time.
Catching COVID-19 in the office is also a
real concern. Everyone became used to the physical distancing and some people
are much more comfortable with those rules in place. Now, having people back in
their physical space is especially anxiety-inducing. Along with worrying about
catching the virus themselves, people may be trying to protect unvaccinated
loved ones at home, such as children and those that are not eligible for
vaccination.
While working from home, people often
worked longer hours than they would normally in the office. Now transitioning
back to where the hours are more set, the expectation is for people to be
equally as productive as they
were during the pandemic in fewer hours. In office, employees are constantly
being interrupted due to all the activity happening around them and are often
unable to focus for the full eight hours. Keeping up with the workload may
become a problem.
Adjusting
back to commuting may be another challenge as it may feel like losing time. Everyone
returning to their old lifestyle must become accustomed to juggling work,
chores and other commitments on a stricter timeline. Working from home, the
flexibility gave people more freedom to shuffle their hours to fit the needs of
their families. Additionally, another big issue is childcare. Because children
are unable to be vaccinated at this time, many childcare services are not
operating.
To stay on track throughout all these
transitions, people need to prioritize their mental health. Make sure to
exercise regularly, going on walks, when possible, to get adequate sunlight and
fresh air. Eat healthy, meaning a whole-food diet. Get enough sleep and do not
over-caffeinate, as it can stimulate feelings of anxiety. Reward yourself for
all the hard work with healthy incentives. If struggling emotionally, reach out
for support from a mental health professional that can help guide you through
the transition.
Stress management is key. Everyone,
especially parents, need to build self-care time into their new schedule. Use
commuting time to practice relaxation by listening to calming music to set the
tone for the day. Take up meditation. There are many meditation apps and YouTube
videos that make it easy to meditate if you are unsure where to start. If the
family has private self-care time, try setting aside time to do something
healthy like taking the whole family for a walk.
Always
remember to be patient and gentle with oneself during this transition time.
Remember, it took time to adjust to the new way of life during the height of
COVID-19; it’s going to take time to adjust back as well. Expect to feel more
tired, stressed, and/or more agitated than usual; it’s all a natural part of
the returning process. It will take time, but eventually the office will return
to a sense of normalcy.
Dr. Jolene Ross, Ph.D., is the founder
and director of Advanced Neurotherapy, PC, located at 145 Rosemary St., in Needham. She is a neurobehavioral
psychologist with extensive experience in neurobiofeedback treatment, cognitive
and behavioral therapy and behavioral medicine. For more information, call
781-444-9115 or visit AdvancedNeurotherapy.com.